Where will LeBron James decide to play basketball? Cleveland, Chicago, New York, Miami, or who knows? This was the question asked around the nation for an entire week. This became the only topic that repeated continuously on every news headline. I would jokingly think, "Am I really going to lose sleep where this NBA star decides to play basketball?"
However, due to our sports crazed society, millions of Americans turned their televisions to ESPN at 9:00 to see and hear this athlete's decision and of course it was broad casted LIVE. I admit for being one of those viewers (my husband's fault who would watch Sports Center all day) during that hour special. After remaining patient through several highlights, numerous commercials, and the sportscasters' predictions, Mr. James' decision was made. This amazing athlete will be enjoying South Beach playing for the Miami Heat.
Of course this was no surprise since two other phenomenal athletes were added to the Heat the same week, and this trio will supposedly dominate every team in the NBA league. (ESPN video)
Since I do not watch professional basketball, this really was not a major concern for me. However, the interview and response from the nation regarding this decision is what prompted me to write this blog. This decision can be related to our own lives as we make choices throughout life and dealing with how others respond.
How do you make decisions? What factors are considered? Why do you choose a certain pathway that leads you in another direction? Every decision is different...
During LeBron's intensive interview, I became nervous and anxious for him. It was obvious this was a difficult decision for LeBron and he had to announce it on national television (which was also his decision). He had played for Cleveland seven years and was their "native son." Cleveland was his home and he continued to say that over and over again throughout the interview. He apologized to his former teammates for leaving, but reiterated that he had to do what was best for his career. Was this a bad thing? Obviously, it only took hours for LeBron's former owner for the Cleveland Cavaliers to make a defensive statement regarding LeBron's "bad decision."
Within one minute of an "official announcement", Cleveland had quickly forgotten the last seven years that this athlete had devoted his time, energy, and heart to their team. None of that mattered anymore---he was now considered a selfish traitor for doing what was best for his career.
It is the worst feeling in the world to be forgotten after you have poured your entire heart and soul into something. It hurts after spending years in a community trying to positively influence the lives of others that those people will turn their heads away to avoid speaking just because you chose to be in a different place. It no longer matters to them since you decided to do what is best for your life. How could they forget?
My daddy always provides the best advice and a tidbit of information that remains with me each day is to never forget what people do for you (especially the good). This doesn't mean live in the past, but it does remind me to be forever grateful for the individuals who have influenced me to become who I am today. There will always be a hello and a thank you for a possible old friend from elementary school, former high school teacher, or past colleague...I will never forget your kindness and sincerity, no matter where you are.
LeBron James-I commend you for deciding what was best for you and America will eventually understand there is a time to be selfish---and just a reminder: Ignore the people who forgot you.
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